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Food for thought, beauty

Maybe an unpopular opinion, but I think it's true: 

Is it just me, who think it's unfair

That society/ the internet seems to judge girls based on how 'natural' or 'normal' they are.

It's such a trend going around now for girls who prefer

'Sweatpants over jeans' 

'Sneakers over heels' 

'No makeup over cake-on-your-face'

'Glasses over contacts' 

'Curvy figures over skinny bodies' 

I personally think that trying to oppose society's original views on 'judging girls based on how good they look' isn't actually working by putting down girls who enjoy or are born with characteristic number 2. 

In turn, we're still carrying on judging. Just on the opposite end.

Even guys 'shun' girls who wear makeup, saying that they prefer all natural faces and makeup is ugly. 

Isn't that the same thing as guys who favor girls with a face full of makeup over natural faces?

It's all judgement.

Maybe that girl finds comfort in skinny jeans? Maybe she likes wearing makeup because it's an art or a hobby to her? Maybe she wears contacts because her glasses slip off her nose every few seconds? Maybe she's born with a body that just can't gain weight?

Maybe we've never thought about the fact that she's doing it because she likes it, feels comfortable that way and she's not doing it for you guys or the rest of society.

So maybe, we should really stop branding anybody based on how they look or dress. In my opinion judgement will never stop, but at least don't form trends that people feel the need to side by and cause the people on the opposite end to feel like they need to stop wearing heels and makeup just to please you. Because it's exactly the same thing as making them feel like they do need to.

So girls, do as you please, conservatively. What makes you comfortable.

You don't need people to tell you what you can or cannot wear.

You wanna let your hair down? Go ahead.

You feel like chilling in a hoodie and sweatpants with no makeup on outside? As you please.

Or do you just feel like rocking that kickass pair of black pumps with a leather jacket and winged eyeliner because it screams YOU? 

Do it, whatever makes you, you. 

Butpleasedontdresslikeyouhavenomoneytobuyclothesbecauseitsnotdecenttowalkaroundwithshortsthelengthofyourpantiesorletyourboobshangoutbecauseyourebetterthanthat.

❤️

-lyanne